First Impressions & Body Language
***Mostly for parents of teenagers who are heading into high school***
Parents, please continue to hammer home the importance of first impressions and body language.
We begin scouting young ballplayers as soon as they step off the bus (at least I do). We arrive early enough to scout out a good vantage point. In most cases, you will be able to pick out the key players as they enter the ballpark. Act as if you are being followed around by a reality TV crew (always be prepared to be interviewed).
When I meet a young man for the first time, I like to shake his hand and get a feel for his “Avatar.” I call it an “Avatar” because it’s the initial public persona that he presents to new individuals. I’m hoping for a good handshake; a clear and direct relay of his name; and maybe a little basic conversation.
The handshake is very important to me. I test hand strength and I also analyze a young man’s feel in a social setting with older individuals. If he doesn’t present a firm grip, I simply mention it to him and mention that the handshake doesn’t necessarily affect his ability; but it “may” have a bearing on his ability to handle a wood bat during the dog days of August.
Most of the successful Major League hitters that I know, all have Vice Grips for hands. They don’t choke the bat, but they have the hand strength to wield it with authority.
Dress the part (on and off the field)
Speak with confidence (hello, my name is Johnny Prospect; nice to meet you sir)
Meet us with a firm grip (we are ready for that strong handshake, so give it to us)
Carry yourself as a young professional (don’t ever appear disinterested in what your coach has to say)
Lastly – approach your work with enthusiasm.
“Do not consider painful what is good for you” – Euripides
Have fun!
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1st Impressions & Body Language...
Posted - 12/05/2015 : 00:05:32
